Our spare room. This simple 12 x 14 foot space has served many functions during the last two years. It has been a study, a guest bedroom, a semi-permanent bedroom, and also a general dumping ground for boxes. Well, now this room finally has a higher purpose.
Sometime in the next 6 months or so this room will become the bedroom of whichever child(ren) we adopt from North Carolina’s foster care system. And to be quite frank, I couldn’t be happier. Of course the futon has to go (if you have $25, it’s yours). The dresser is an advance purchase. The walls will need a new coat of paint- probably white so we can let our adoptive child(ren) pick out the colors for their room. We will also no doubt need some new furniture (bed, another dresser, mirror, etc.).
In case you are just tuning in, I posted on here a while back about how my wife and I came to the decision that we needed to open our home and hearts to a child or children presently in the North Carolina foster care system. [The initial post about adoption, clearing up misconceptions, and also how God has blessed us since]. We are now only two classes away from completing our MAPP training course with Lutheran Family Services. The classes have been wonderful, our instructors fabulous, and the information has been eye-opening. The sadness and misery that abound around us, from sexual abuse to neglect directed toward children, is deeply depressing and tragically all too common.
Once MAPP training is over it is on to the home-study- a period when the social worker comes into our home and conducts a series of interviews with all of us (Sasha included). We also have tons of info and documentation to get together, including: marriage license, birth certificates, tax forms, autobiographies. In addition we need to pay for a fire inspection- and no doubt buy a fire extinguisher, smoke detectors, etc.
This whole process has been such a blessing. If you feel led to help us out with the costs of this adoption- which luckily have been quite minimal thus far- just click on the “Be a Part of our Dream” link on the top right corner of this blog. The link will take you to PayPal where you can donate whatever you feel might led to. Of course donations are NOT tax deductible, but they will be GREATLY appreciated by myself and my family. And even more importantly, please keep us in your prayers as we go through this complicated but rewarding process.
Once we’ve completed the home-study we will be ready to begin the process of being matched by our social worker with children who they think might fit well into our home. Whoever that child (or those children) might be I hope they like the view from their window.
And an even better view- but with my reflection included (not a ghost)
If you have any stories about adoption to share feel free to take up as much comment space as you like. thanks for your prayers and support.